尊重并且认可对方的愤怒，不论你是否同意他们的论点。

Respect and validate their anger , whether or not you agree with their issues .

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除了意识到他人的情绪和观点之外，领导着还能到意识到并且认可自己在争端中扮演的角色。

In addition to realizing the feelings and perspectives of others, the leader will also recognize and acknowledge his own role in the conflict.

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当你在镜子前看到他们的认可并且真正感受到自己，这才是你需要的。

Seeing their approval and feeling your own when you look in the mirror is what you need.

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Now what you might do about this, let's say that we--that you're the Surgeon General or you're the top health official in some country and you agree with this poll, that people are eating too much junk food.

那我们现在要怎么做呢,假设,你是卫生部部长或者你是,某国的卫生部门的高官并且你认可,人们摄取了过量垃圾食品的结论

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