我知道，作为女人，我们有时候不好意思提要求，但是在人生的某个阶段，你就是得自私一点，而这个阶段就是现在（如果它能帮助你的孩子健康成长，这样做就算不上自私）。

I know as women we can sometimes hesitate to ask, but if there's one time in your life you should be selfish, it's now (and after all, it's not selfish if it's helping your baby thrive).

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