因为女性很社会化，谈到自己的情绪、寻求帮助时往往更愉快。
Because of how women are socialized, we tend to be more comfortable talking about our emotions and seeking help.
如果你能做到以下几点，那么当你今后再次寻求帮助时，对方仍然会伸出援助之手。
By following these ideas, it will help ensure that people will continue to lend a hand when you ask.
我知道可能人们会询问我，而我知道如果你寻求帮助时，作为交换，比起给钱来说，大多数人更乐于接受一瓶威士忌。
I knew people might be reluctant to talk to me, and I knew that most people were happy to accept a bottle of scotch instead of money if you offered it in exchange for their help.
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