从男人一方来讲，他们要鼓起勇气放下那套以自我为中心，傲慢无礼的架子，和伴侣一起寻找真正的亲密无间。

Men, for their part, need to develop the courage to drop the defense mechanisms that bolster their egos and pride, and search for true intimacy with their mates.

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不要再寻找你真正的自我了。

Stop trying to find your one true self.

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但是他又继续唱到(音乐基调转向胜利的方向)，只有在自我身上才能寻找到真正的救赎。正是这首歌，给了舒夫坦很大的启发。

But true salvation, he then sings (as the music gallops to a victory march), can only be found in oneself.

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