如果事情改变了，去改变他们的不应该是你。

If things change, you shouldn't be the one to change them.

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如果在你尝试了所有的方法后仍然不起作用，接受这个事实：总有一些事情是你无法改变的。

If it doesn't work after you've tried everything, accept that there are always things you can't change.

youdao

如果你改变的事情它自己也能造成进一步的改变，将产生最大的效果--引起许多石头崩溃的那块石头。

You’ll have the biggest impact if you can change something that will in itself cause further changes — the rock that causes the avalanche.

youdao

Does it make things worse or better ? that there's this kind of variability?

这让事情变糟糕还是变好了,如果有这种改变的话？

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