而后，由于烹饪不出像杰米·奥利弗那样的美味大餐，或对那些外国风味的烹饪材料无所适从，我们就会觉得自己好没用。

Then we feel useless because we can't cook gourmet dinners like Jamie Oliver and don't know what to do with any of these exotic new ingredients.

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And so what I'm really doing is inviting you to take a good, cold, hard look at death, and to face it and think about it in a way that most of us don't do.

那就是我要你们做的，认清，死亡的好和坏，面对它，然后思考它,用我们从没用过的方式。

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