可是，等我大些了，开始渐渐理解我妈的苦处，她恨我父亲，恨那个不负责任的男人，她把恨都转嫁到了我的身上。
However, some such as me, and began to understand the grievances of my mother, she hated my father, the irresponsible hate men, she had passed on to the hate me.
害处是，如果她父亲发觉我竟允许她到你家来，就会恨我的；我相信你鼓励她这样作是有恶毒的打算的。
The harm of it is, that her father would hate me if he found I suffered her to enter your house; and I am convinced you have a bad design in encouraging her to do so, 'I replied.
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