有些人太屈从于别人的意见,太专注于决策共识,对自己的观点太沉默,太容易在没有时间和精力的时候接受事情。
Some people are too subordinate to others' opinions, too focused on decision consensus, too silent about their own point of view, too agreeable to take things on when they don't have time or energy.
聪明的做法是快速倾听,慢慢说话。但是如果太沉默,给人的印象就是你已经接受了他们所说的话。
It's wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what's being said.
听到这些,我的学生们都沉默了,因为他们太害羞了,不敢表达爱,尤其是那些认为说出爱意没有男子汉气概的男孩。
Hearing this, my students were silent, because they were too shy to express love, especially the boys who considered speaking out love not macho.
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