研究这一问题的人说，这很难确定，因为许多日本夫妇在接受调查时，称他们的婚姻是爱情的结合，即使是包办的婚姻。
It's hard to be sure, say those who study the matter, because many Japanese couples, when polled, describe their marriage as a love match even if it was arranged.
甚至有些时候，连他们的母亲都很难去接受自己的孩子，因为她们是被逼得，她们可能并不想要这个孩子。
Sometimes, even the mother has difficulty of accepting the child as, you know, as a child that she wants and she loves.
这很值得重复阅读，因为许多读者会发现这很难接受。
This is worth re-reading, for many readers will find this difficult to accept.
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