虽然我们对不可避免的事有所准备，但是最终的结果同样令我们痛苦，同样难以接受。

And although we prepared ourselves for the inevitable, the end was no less painful, no easier to accept.

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同样，如果你失去了某个其他家庭成员(非直系亲属)，通常你也会觉得这非常令人难以接受。

It can also feel hard to express your own grief when other family members are grieving, too.

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如果只是那些可笑的欧洲人因为这么微不足道的小因素而受影响，我们可能很容易接受这样的事实。但是如果同样的事情发生在我们身上，我们会发现它非常难以接受。

It is easy to accept that those funny Europeans would be influenced by such small things, but it is incredibly difficult to accept that we ourselves would behave differently in these two scenarios.

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