这种新国民生活礼仪的制定，在取舍之间，不应以哪个国强大先进为标准，而是要合乎人情义理。

In setting up new rules of etiquette, we should choose what is reasonable and proper, rather than taking the most "advanced" and powerful nations as a standard.

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If we're going to have a way to decide between these two theories, it seems as though we need some other kind of arguments.

如果我们非要找个方法在两个理论之间取舍，那看来我们需要别的论据。

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How should we choose between these two views?

我们该如何在两个理论之间取舍？

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Putting aside,for the most part,the soul view, because I've argued that there are no souls-- although occasionally I bring it out just for the sake of comparison and contrast-- the main question we want to ask ourselves is how to choose between the body view and the personality view.

基本上可以把灵魂理论放到一边，因为我已经说过不认为有灵魂存在-,尽管有时候我会提到这个词,但那只是为了便于对比和比照-,我们要探讨的一个主要问题是,如何在两者之间取舍。

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