你还会发现，固守已经一去不复返的东西，或者更确切的说，是你已经离开的地方，会妨碍你自身的观察、吸收和反应的能力。
You will also find that holding on to what is no longer there, or more correctly where you no longer are, impedes your own ability to observe, assimilate and respond.
驾车离开哈拉雷向南行驶数小时后，你会发现曾种满玉米与饲养家畜的一片经济农场现在已经被分割为三十五小块土地，只给农民勉强能靠它维持生活。
A few hours' drive south of Harare, a commercial farm that used to grow maize and rear cattle has now been divided into 35 plots where subsistence farmers try to scrape a living.
如果你发现自己已经加入了这样的地方，而且就和其它欺负人一样行为，那么最好的办法就是尽快离开。
If you find you've joined such a place and are acting just like the other bullies, the best thing to do is to leave as quickly as possible.
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