父亲没有帮他，反而问：“儿子，你已经尽力了吗？我的意思是，你用尽了你能用的所有办法了吗？”
The father didn't help him, but instead asked, "Son, have you tried your best? I mean, are you doing everything you can?"
向他人请教问题不仅不会带来不便或是让被问者感到厌烦，反而会让你在别人眼中更聪明。
Far from inconveniencing or annoying the advice-giver, asking for advice may make others think you are smarter.
但是现在我对此没那么在乎了，她们反而要么主动提出来要么在我问的时候很快答应。
But now that I really don't care that much about it, they all either suggest it or say yes if I ask.
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