设想一下，你是多么希望它反而能够结束；下次它再出现的时候，试着醒来，这样恰好足以控制住它的进程。

Visualize how you would like it to end instead; the next time it occurs, try to wake up just enough to control its course.

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过分详细反而使人糊涂的说法是有道理的。

It is arguable that giving too much detail may actually be confusing.

《牛津词典》

起初，它们和他保持一定的距离，但很快它们就发现他是个善良的人，不会伤害它们，反而喜欢它们靠近他。

At first, they kept their distance from him, but they soon found he was a kind man, and would not hurt them, but liked to have them near him.

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The decay of Christian belief and practice is not a loss but rather an opportunity for poetry, in Crane.

基督教信仰和践行的衰败,在克莱恩看来，并不是损失，反而是诗歌新生的机会。

耶鲁公开课 - 现代诗歌课程节选

Let me just give some example of-- sometimes people are very slow to see the obvious, or it seems so in history.

我来举些例子-,有时人们对显见之物的反应反而比较滞后，起码从历史上来看是这样的。

耶鲁公开课 - 金融市场课程节选

What this entails is just trying to stop controlling things, but I also mistake it a little bit because by stopping controlling things, you're going to control it more.

必须的是,试着放手不去控制事物，但这也是个悖论,因为想不控制事物，反而会加强控制。

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选