观点采择的本质特征在于个体认识上的去自我中心化，即能够站在他人的角度，从他人的角度看待问题。
The nature of perspective taking lies in decentration of individuals cognition, namely, he can think from others point of view.
自我的意义在于什么时候考虑自尊，除了平衡完整的自我意义之外的自尊，自尊不是去认为自己是最好的和能做任何事（更方便定义为自恋和自我中心），自尊是建立在哪方面做的好，哪方面做得不好的基础之上。
It is this sense of self that you need to consider when thinking of self-esteem. What is self-esteem except a sense of self that is balanced and whole?
学习不自私地去爱不是易事，因为这违反我们自我中心的本性，所以要穷一生之功去学习。
Learning to love unselfishly is not an easy task. It runs counter to our self-centered nature. That's why we're given a lifetime to learn it.
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