你一辈子都在以别人为榜样。

You have been modelling yourself on others all your life.

《柯林斯英汉双解大词典》

她曾经表达过因为一辈子迎合别人的需要而沮丧，或者认为不再值得吗？

Did she ever expressed her frustration at a life spent catering to other people's needs, or considered if she didn't deserve more?

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最不礼貌的事情莫过于不尊重他人了，不尊重别人可能会让别人讨厌你一辈子。

The most impolite thing is to disrespect somebody. They might hate you for a lifetime for this.

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