要搞清楚对方有没有结过婚，还是刚分手。

Make sure that you know if this person has been married or just came from a break up.

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他跟女朋友刚分手。

He and his girlfriend just split up.

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为自己好，接受你的心情，改说：“我刚分手，失去的心情是正常而自然的。”

You do yourself a favor by accepting your feelings, saying instead, "I've just had a breakup." Feelings of loss are normal and natural.

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