想想，刚上大一就耐不住寂寞，受不住诱惑，而去谈恋爱的男孩子，值得自己去珍惜吗？

Just think, just top as a freshman can not bear lonesome, by temptation impetuously, and to fall in love boys, worth his to cherish?

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I had just gotten over a serious illness that I won't bother to talk about except that it had something to do with the miserably weary splitting up and my feeling that everything was dead.

我刚熬过一场重大疾病，具体就不说了,只是这与我和妻子不幸的分离有些关系,我感觉万物都没有了生机。

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The class just seemed to be a platform for Kagan to throw out random ideas " and the students were never required to engage in any thought."

它看起来就像一场演出,演出内容就是卡刚抛出随机的观点,而学生们从没被要求参与其中“

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