你必须要确定你已经准备好了，因为当你向世界上所有还在寻找爱的人宣布它时，你必须确定你在和别人约会时，你不会伤害她。

You have to be sure because when you are going to declare this to all the eligible bachelors and bachelorette in the world, you're sure of it you will not hurt anyone you are dating along the way.

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“我们交往有一段时间了，我们感觉我们已经准备好了，”皮尔斯说，“我们爱彼此，我们这样做不只是出于我们想要这样做……我们想让它变得特别起来。”

"We've been dating for a little while, and we feel like we're ready," Pierce says. "we love each other, and."

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如果爱够伟大，如果心够包容，请别让我等太久，好吗？我在我的城市里等你，你准备好了吗？

If love is great, if your heart is inclusive, please don't let me wait too long, okay? I wait for you in my city, you ready?

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So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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