道德修养的最高境界是认识到我们可以控制自己的思想。

The highest possible stage in moral culture is that we recognize that we ought to control our minds.

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他是一个有修养的、交友甚广的人。

He is a cultured man with a wide circle of friends.

《柯林斯英汉双解大词典》

Yes, to me personally, I feel like it all depends on one's personal morals and like we can't sit here and just, like this is just my opinion, ... of course other people are going to disagree but Well we'll see, let's see what their disagreements are and then we'll see if they have reasons that can persuade you or not.

对，就我个人来讲，我觉得这完全取决于一个人的道德修养,而不是我们在这坐着说得清楚的，当然这只是我一家之言，其他人肯定会反对，但是,这个到时再说，先看他们的反对意见是什么,再来看他们的理由是否能说服你。

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