你只要有哪怕一丁点儿企图把这个人变成你自身某一花哨的侧面，试验就会失败：例如你把自己对于好男人和淑女的观念强加于它。

And you will vitiate the experiment if you make the slightest attempt to abort it into some fancy figure of your own: for example, your notion of a good man or a womanly woman.

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你只要有哪怕一丁点儿企图把这个人变成你自身某一花哨的侧面试验就会失败：例如你把自己对于好男人和淑女的观念强加于它。

And you will vitiate the experiment if you make the slightest attempt to abort it into some fancy figure of your own: for example your notion of a good man or a womanly woman.

youdao

建议你把它们放入一本相册，或许可以对特别的那些酒记一点笔记，例如你在哪里喝的以及你喜欢的原因。

Get a photo album and put them in. Maybe jot a little note for the special ones about where you drank it or why you liked it.

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