小姑娘的微笑使发怒的老头缓和下来。
因为愤怒常因内疚、羞愧这样的情绪火上浇油，使人们对自己的行为大为不满，更加深了发怒人的羞愧情绪。
Because anger is often fueled by guilt and shame, making people feel bad about their behavior doesn't work either-it reinforces the angry person's sense of victimhood.
不要因日头把我晒黑了，就轻看我。我同母的弟兄向我发怒，他们使我看守葡萄园，我自己的葡萄园却没有看守。
Look not upon me, because I am black, because the sun hath looked upon me: my mother's children were angry with me; they made me the keeper of the vineyards; but mine own vineyard have I not kept.
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