为不必担心的事情惶惶不安，才是对孩子的一种真正的伤害，使他们变得焦虑、不敢冒险，或者如她所说，成为“长于温室、依赖母亲、总幻想着危险而抹杀快乐的一群人。”

By worrying about the wrong things, we do actual damage to our children, raising them to be anxious and unadventurous or, as she puts it, "hothouse, mama-tied, danger-hallucinating joy extinguishers."

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迈克尔的工作使他意识到，穷人们是决不肯和子女分离的，即使赡养子女总使他们沦于贫困和痛苦。

Michael's work had taught him that the poor would never have consented to part with their children, even though keeping them would always mean privation and suffering.

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