如果你问美国的女大学生，她们会回答希望伴侣在西装革履的外表下，拥有一切她们喜欢的特质：除了忠诚之外，伴侣还必须风趣、幽默，能和她们成为好友。

If you ask American college women, they expect everything under the suit: in addition to being committed, partners have to be amusing, funny and a friend.

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我的建议是多问些关于他们的问题，这样看上去你是有有兴趣交谈的，但是不要不顾一切地问太多而把别人吓跑了。

My advice would be to ask a lot of questions about them so that you seem interested, but not so much as to scare them away or seem desperate. It's a delicate balance.

youdao

你显然是想尊重每个人的隐私，但是问一问是不是一切都好是可以的。

Though you clearly want to respect everyone's privacy, ask your co-worker if everything is OK.

youdao

Throw in whatever you want All we need to ask at that this point is is there any way at all to imagine immortality ? where immortality of that sort would be a good thing?

保证你想要的一切,我们这是需要问的是,有没有办法想象永生,这样的永生会是好事吗？

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