如果你问美国的女大学生，她们会回答希望伴侣在西装革履的外表下，拥有一切她们喜欢的特质：除了忠诚之外，伴侣还必须风趣、幽默，能和她们成为好友。

If you ask American college women, they expect everything under the suit: in addition to being committed, partners have to be amusing, funny and a friend.

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当你问一些你没有答案的问题，像如何、哪里、何时、谁，就会建立一种让一切东西减速的矛盾着的振动。

When you pose questions you don't have answers for, like how, where, when, who, it sets up a contradictory vibration that slows everything down.

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他戏剧性地问：“你必须告诉父母、亲戚、朋友自己所做的一切，用这样的方法来更新你的个人历史。”

'he asked dramatically.' you must renew your personal history by telling your parents, your relatives, and your friends everything you do.

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Throw in whatever you want All we need to ask at that this point is is there any way at all to imagine immortality ? where immortality of that sort would be a good thing?

保证你想要的一切,我们这是需要问的是,有没有办法想象永生,这样的永生会是好事吗？

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