它们多半会告诉你，要“放松”，“做你自己”——这是完全不负责任的说法。

Mostly they tell you to "relax" and to "be yourself" - which is downright irresponsible.

youdao

放松你自己，不要纠结于定要知道结果，你要相信你自己可以一步步慢慢找到答案。

Release yourself from your need to know, and trust that you'll find the answers as you go along.

youdao

放松你自己，要记得有很多情况都不能被简化到数字。

Cut yourself some slack, and remember that there are many situations that can't be reduced to Numbers.

youdao