当然，你可以让心里的感受做主，但要保证自己心里所想的事情和别人钱包里的钱有关系。

Of course, follow your heart, but make sure what's in your heart can correlate to someone else's wallet.

youdao

你母亲说得对，这财产就不由自己做主了。

One's fortune, as your mother justly says, is NOT one's own.

youdao

你可以完全自己做主，能看到喜欢看的，到处随意踏，兴之所至还可以去探索偏僻的小路。

'you're on your own, and you can see what you like, wander off and explore side roads.'

youdao

It's your own decision to eat Okay. The man is in charge of his dietary destiny.

吃什么该由你自己做主,很好,男人应该掌控自己的饮食命运

耶鲁公开课 - 关于食物的心理学、生物学和政治学课程节选