如果你看别人的生活。

If you look to the lives of others.

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我想你可以找出很多，如果你看别人的眼睛。

I think you can find out a lot if you look someone in the eyes.

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他们总是指责你在出轨：因为他们有出轨的冲动，他们认为你也一样并且无论何时你看别人或给别人赞美时总是会疑神疑鬼。

They accuse you of cheating: Because they have the urge to cheat, they will think you are the same and will get paranoid whenever you look at someone else or give someone a compliment.

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Finally, and this is the last thing I'll say: If you take another person's perspective, you'll care more about them.

最后我要说的是：,如果你从别人的角度看问题，你就会更关心他们。

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I think one of the greatest circles for moral good is storytelling where you're invited to take the perspective of another and see the world as they do.

我觉得宣扬德行的最好办法之一,就是讲故事,它能促使你从别人的角度看问题,看到别人眼中的世界。

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So, for instance, they may be people like you who filled in a form, one question along a very long form was your sexual orientation, and then you're sitting down being interviewed by somebody and your interview is being filmed, and then other people are shown--who don't know you are shown the film.

他们可能是像你们一样在填一张表格，在一连串的问题中，有一条是关于你的性取向，然后你坐着，有人问你问题,这个提问过程会被拍下来，然后拿给别人看，这些人不认识你,他们会看这个录像。

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