我知道你做什么都是为我好，不过爸爸，你知道吗，你是否有察觉我们之间有代沟，你越来越不了解我，你爱我的方式也不是我所需要的。

But Dad, do you know that there is actually a generation gap between us? Increasingly, I feel that you do not understand me and the way that you love me is not the way that I really want.

youdao

爱我就应该放开你的怀抱，让我的思想展翅翱翔，让我有更大的说话空间。

If you do love me, free me from your embrace, allow my mind to roam freely and give me greater space for expression.

youdao

我很确定，如果过去有任何人问你你都会说你爱我。

If anyone were to ask you, you would say you love me - I am sure of that.

youdao

So for instance, if a child says to his mother, "I loves you, Mommy," it's a very unusual parent who would say, "Oh, no. The verb agreement is mistaken.

例如,如果孩子对妈妈说,"我爱你,妈妈",很少有家长会说,"不对,动词一致性错了

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