你恋人抛弃了你，你怎么办？

What will you do if your lover dumps you?

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当你开始一段新的恋爱时，对你恋人的兴趣爱好感兴趣是很正常的事。

When you start a new relationship, it is normal to become interested in your partner's hobbies and interests.

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找一些能给你的一天带来快乐的小东西：可能是是你恋人的照片，一个令人鼓舞的海报，甚至是小玩具或能使你微笑的人形公仔。

Look for some small items to bring a bit of happiness into your day: perhaps photos of your loved ones, an inspirational poster, or even small toys or action figures that make you smile.

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And you can discover this yourself with a partner or a mirror.

你可以通过镜子观察你和你的恋人。

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