当你不知道自己在干什么时，就说你是monkey around with something，你正在触碰或把玩一些你应该放下的东西。
You monkey around with something when you do not know what you are doing. You are touching or playing with something you should leave alone.
在放下吉他或停止上你的舞蹈课之前，你应该考虑如何在学习和爱好之间分配你的时间。
Before putting away the guitar or stopping your dance lessons, you should think how you could divide your time between studying and hobbies.
每次放下一个应该，说出一个喜好，作出一个决定，你就在重写自己的故事。
Every time you shed a should, state a preference, and make a decision you are rewriting your own story.
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