但这是因为你不可爱吗？

But is it because you're not lovable?

youdao

你可以列出对方种种不可爱的地方，但你还是把这些置之脑后，继续你的专注。

You can list what you don't like about them but then you sweep that aside and focus on what you do.

youdao

如果你吃得了辣那还好，但还是劝你别冒险。辣的食物会让你出汗、流泪，这看起来并不可爱。

If you can handle the heat then good for you, but don't risk it. Spicy foods can cause sweating and watery eyes, and that's just not cute.

youdao

Suppose you hate development; you hate developmental psychology; you hate babies; you hate children; they're not cute; they're ugly; you don't want to have them; you don't want to study them; you're annoyed that we have to discuss them.

假设你讨厌发展,讨厌发展心理学,讨厌婴儿,讨厌儿童,他们不可爱,他们很丑陋,你不想有孩子,也不想去研究他们,你对我们探讨儿童觉得厌烦

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