他们会想对你解释那些可能伤害到你的事情；会想对你坦白他们的错误并希望得到你的原谅；会想在既不会影响到他们在你心目中的曾产生的美好错觉也不会被看扁的前提下，与你随心所欲地交流他们真实的想法。

They want to explain things that might have hurt you, to own up to and be forgiven for mistakes, and to be free to tell you what they really think without shattering illusions or being looked down on.

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