但是我的父亲用行动告诉我成为男人意味着承担责任——为你的每个选择、你的家庭、你的社区以及你的子孙后代。

But my father showed me that being a man means taking responsibility-for your choices, for your family, for your community, and for the next generation.

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我听见砰砰声和尖叫声，以及父亲的声音，还听见母亲在喊叫。

I could hear thuds and screams, and my father's voice and my mother Shouting.

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我现在明白父亲以及十七年以后母亲的过世，给我和我的家人带来多么深远的影响。

I now understand what a far-ranging impact the deaths of my father and, seventeen years later, my mother have had on me and my family.

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