如果你的父母有问题，你应该主动提供帮助。也许你可以多做些家务，这样他们就有更多的时间进行适当的交流。第二，你为什么不坐下来和你哥哥交流呢？

If your parents are having problems, you should offer to help. Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication. Secondly, why don't you sit down and communicate with your brother?

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随着87团一营的士兵们被运上飞机，一批又一批的部署在阿富汗，就有一个难以启齿的问题一直萦绕心头：他们之中谁将在阿富汗阵亡？

Asthe men and women of First Battalion, 87th Infantry deployed, planeload afterplaneload, to Afghanistan this year, there was an unspoken question in the air:Who among them wouldn’t make it home?

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不难想像两个不同的程序员可能希望存储不同的字体大小，如果他们决定以同一个名字“font size”存储他们的值，那么我们就有问题了。

It's not hard to imagine that two different programmers might want to store different font sizes, and if they each decided to store theirs under the name "font size," we'd have a problem.

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And this is often followed up, seriously enough, " "You have deep psychological problems."

通常下面他们就会说句相当严重的话，“你有严重的心理问题“

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And one of the cases that I've talked about probably be the most controversial is where babies were born with severe problems that not gonna be compatible with what the parents and doctors judge to be a reasonable quality of life.

我所讲过的例子中,下面这个可能是最具争议的,有些婴儿一出生就有严重的生理问题,他们无法如他们的,父母和医生所愿,用有正常的生活质量。

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What Haidt finds is most people say it doesn't and then he simply asks them, being a good psychologist, "Okay. What's wrong with it?"

但Haidt发现大部份人都认为有问题,作为一个优秀心理学家，他就问他们，“好的，哪里有问题？”

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