当生活在一个人拥有的社会关系和他想要的社会关系之间存在巨大的鸿沟时，人们很容易把这个问题当作别人的问题而不予理睬。

It's easy to shrug this off as someone else's problem while living with a vast gap between the social connections one has and what one desires.

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而现在，人们只是把洗衣机装满，打开开关，然后就全交给它了。

Now they just load them, switch them on and leave them to it.

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把你的名字刻在人们的心里，而不是大理石上。

Garve your name on hearts and not on marbles.

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And more generally, people tend to give too much weight to the person and not enough weight to the situation.

简单来说就是，人们过多地把原因归于人身上,而不是实际情况中。

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