个人攻击将使人们会使人自我防御，然后他们将不会听进去你说的任何话。

Personal attacks make people feel defensive, and then they won't really listen to anything you have to say.

youdao

但是我越来越发现，人们开始听进去了，因为我使用的是他们能懂的语言。

But more and more, I'm finding, people listen, because I speak in a language they can understand.

youdao

你说得越多，人们越难听进去。

The more you say, the less people hear.

youdao