另一方面，当别人对待你的方式与你的自我定义不一致时，你就会被拒绝。

On the other hand, rejection occurs when others treat you in a manner that in inconsistent with your self-definition.

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耐心等待与你的自我和他人。

Be patient with your self and with others.

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与你的自我更融洽，对你来说不需要再增加压力。

Be easy and gentle with yourselves in all things now for you certainly do not require any added stresses.

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And you'll like to use this in expressing yourself and your decisions about certain situations.

这个句型能够表达某些情况下的自我与自己的决定，你会喜欢这个句型的。

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