第四步：忘记你不能搞定的。

Step 4: Forget what you can't fix.

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已经有许多不错的建议来帮助他们平衡这一切，而我在这里也根据自己的经历给出一点忠告：你不能搞定一切，你也不应该搞定一切。

While there are many helpful Suggestions on ways to balance everything, here's another piece of advice I've learned during my journey: you can't do it all. And you shouldn't.

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有“微波炉思维”的人们都觉得如果某件事不能在5分钟之内搞定，那么这件事就不值得动手去做。

People with the microwave mentality tend to have the attitude that if something can't be done in 5 minutes or less, it's not worth doing.

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