长远来看，这样的孩子最终会变得孤独、依赖性强，慢慢地对努力取悦他们的父母变得不满和怨恨。
In the longer term, such children end up lonely, dependent, chronically dissatisfied and resentful of the parents who tried so hard to please them.
如果你坚持站在一面，根据它有效地采取行动，那么，站在另一面的那些人当然会对你的行动怨恨不满。
If you take one side with decision and on it with effect, those who take the other side will of course resent your actions.
可能原因：如果你的不满和表面只相隔“一张纸”而且它不断地在渗出，可能在外表下有怨恨、后悔或沮丧在沸腾。
Why you Might Do It: If your discontent dwells directly below the surface and is constantly seeping through, there's probably resentment, regret, or frustration boiling beneath.
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