不如意事常八九。

Things often go not as our wish.

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第二，人生不如意事十成八九，你想出晕的时候，通常都不会出的。

Second, most of the things you really wish you could stun you can't.

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How do we get them to thrive beyond just getting rid ? of what is not working in their lives?

我们如何让他们全面发展，而不仅仅是帮他们摆脱,生活中不如意的事？

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And if our only questions, ? or primarily our questions are "what is not working?

如果我们只问同一类问题，或只是问“有哪些不如意的事？

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One is the disease model: let's run away from what is not working.

一种是疾病模型：,让我们逃避不如意的事。

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