与其始终将注意力放在遥远的终点，不如将你的目标分解成较小的步骤。

Instead of focusing on the finish line in the distance, break your goal into smaller steps.

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与其试着去改变一些不可能的事情还不如将你的精力放在你能掌控的事情上。

Instead of trying to change something you can't, focus your energy on changing something that is within your control.

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要学着接受生活有时候不如您所愿的这一事实，与其试着去改变一些不可能的事情还不如将你的精力放在你能掌控的事情上。

Accept the fact that things may not go as planned. Instead of trying to change something you can't, focus your energy on changing something that is within your control.

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