但是治疗师们的断语都存在一个小问题：这对假定不够理想的父母已经培养出另外两个有教养的完美好男孩。

But there was one small problem with these explanations: this supposedly suboptimal couple had managed to raise two other well-adjusted and perfectly nice boys.

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对于不够理想的不要满足。在那些对你来说最为重要的问题上不要折衷。你要得到令你满意的东西。只对生活中最好的满足。

Don't be content for those that are not so ideal , don't comprise to those most important things for you . you need to get those which can satisfy you , just be content with the best.

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克鲁斯、鲍嘉、史泰龙（此人的情况稍后奉上）等身高不够理想的男演员倾向于至少要在声势上壮大自己，就像《日落大道》中的格洛莉亚·斯万森那样。

Cruise, Bogey, Sly (of whom more later): small male actors, at least, are, like Gloria Swanson in Sunset Boulevard, telling themselves and us that they are not small.

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Why? Because good will and idealism, while necessary,they are not sufficient.

为什么呢？因为美好的意愿和理想主义，虽然必要，但却是不够的。

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Good will, idealism, good intentions are not enough.

好的意愿，理想主义，好的意图是不够的。

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Idealism and good intentions are not enough.

理想主义和善意是不够的。

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