因为开始决定要让你一辈子快乐的那一天，我就决定有天我会向你求婚……

Because we are beginning to make your life a happy decision that day, I decided one day I will marry you … …

youdao

如果是这样，像Kahn一家一样，你的快乐可能基于你想问题的方式，主要在于几十年甚至一辈子积累出的随性。

If so, like the Kahns, your happiness may depend on habits of mind, chief among them flexibility, that you would need to have developed decades, or even a whole lifetime, earlier.

youdao

人这一辈子，我们都希望自己有个幸福的家，每天都是个快乐的人。

People in this lifetime, we all wish to have a happy family, every day is a happy man.

youdao

Now, if you ask me right now if I would rather experience intense pleasure or have a full lifetime of higher pleasure, I would consider intense pleasure to be low pleasure.

现在你要是问，我是要体验强烈的快感,还是一辈子的高级快乐，我把强烈快感看作低级快乐。

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