然而我们不能控制我们的伴侣的感觉、反应，但是我们能够做一些事尽量去减少一些和一个坏脾气的老人生活的不快。

While we can't control how our partner feels, reacts or responds there are things we can do to reduce some of the unpleasantness that comes with living with a grumpy old man or woman.

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作为一个坏脾气老人，我见到过太多流行一时的和无用——或更严重，有害——的实践，在没完全理解他们之前就盲目实施，我不得不还原价值。

As an old curmudgeon who's seen too many fads and useless-or worse, harmful-practices that are blindly followed without fully understanding them, I have come to value.

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