It's not what is happening to you now or what happened in your past that determine who you become.

不是现在你身上发生的什么，或者你过去发生的什么，决定了你将成为谁。

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It's not what's happening to you now or what has happened in your past that determines who you become.

不是现在发生在你身上的事或在你过去所发生的事决定你会成为什么样的人。

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It's not your parents, your past relationships or your job, but you and only you that are responsible for every goal you set.

不是你的父母，不是你的过去的恋情，也不是你的工作，而是你自己，只有你自己对你设定的每一个目标负责。

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When you got to be about the age of what you guys are here, Ephebate you might enter the ephebate; Ephebe you'd become an ephebe, and that just meant that you were past your sort of early secondary training and now you were being really in training to be a warrior and a citizen.

等长到差不多你们年纪时，就可以进入;,成为，表明他通过了类似早期中级教育,可以正式接受战士及公民的训练。

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It's definitely an opportunity for help, but particularly, as an opportunity to work with someone for just a few moments to help get you unstuck or to get you past some stumbling block that, otherwise, if you struggled with on your own, you might sink or waste even multiple hours on just something that you're not seeing.

这是一个寻求帮助的机会，特别是，作为一个与某人一起工作的机会,他们能帮助你解决问题,或帮助你越过绊脚石，否则，如果你自己单独奋斗，你可能,浪费很多时间在,你不了解的东西上。

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Talk about what you would accomplish in the position you want, and specify ways your past successes illustrate that.

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Review your habits and past behaviors that have previously not produced the results you desire.

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That being said, I think your past weight loss effort was far too aggressive and that is why you felt terrible and were hungry all day.

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