If you once allow yourself to regard a child as so much material for you to manufacture into any shape that happens to suit your fancy you are defeating the experiment of the Life Force.

如果你曾允许自己把孩子当成是可以塑造的材料，能够让你塑造出任何符合你喜好的形状的话，那么你做的关于生命力的实验就失败了。

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The force of attraction is an important tool that restores the authority and responsibility to create your life.

吸引力的力量是恢复你创造自己人生的权力和责任的重要工具。

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She’s the love of your life, he said, looking up at me, and the force of his gaze, the fire in his eyes, threw me right across the room.

她是你生命中的爱，他抬起眼睛望着我说，眼中凝视你的那种魔力和火焰扑射过来。

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And so the peacefulness, the serenity that we feel away from the Internet, and which all the Better-Nevers rightly testify to, has less to do with being no longer harried by others than with being less oppressed by the force of your own inner life.

NEWYORKER: The Information

Please do not force your larger-than-life self on children.

FORBES: Connect

They force you to look at the whole picture and how your career impacts other areas of life.

FORBES: What Are You Willing to Sacrifice for Personal and Professional Growth?