Many people assume that our attitudes are internally consistent, that is, the way you think and feel about someone or something predicts your behavior towards them.

许多人认为我们的态度于内在是一致的，也就是说，你对某人或某事的想法和感受决定了你对他们的行为。

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If your parents are reluctant to renegotiate, you can speed the process along by letting your behavior show that you have the responsibility that goes with maturity.

如果你的父母不愿意重新协商，你可以通过让你的行为证明你有与成熟度相匹配的责任感来加快这个过程。

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You can also add that you realize they hear your noise too, and you are certainly willing to try to stop anything in your behavior that is creating extra noise.

你还可以补充说，你意识到他们也听到了你的噪音，而你当然愿意尽量停止任何造成额外噪音的行为。

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But the mere fact that they would change your behavior doesn't yet tell you whether they're reason-generating facts.

但仅仅是它们会改变你的行为这个事实,并没有告诉你它们是否是产生原因的事实。

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you're not lying to anybody else still, there are desires and motivations that govern your behavior that you may not be aware of.

并未向他人撒谎,但却依然存在着支配你行为的欲望和动机，–,只是你没有意识到罢了。

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Possibility number two is the facts change your behavior by giving you a reason to behave differently.

第二种可能是事实改变了你的行为,通过给了你一个改变行为的理由。

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If you believe it, you change your behavior in the direction of being cured.

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