If she no longer loves you, you are still filled with great affection, and even with you get married, have children, that it is the real deception.

如果她不再爱你，却还装的对你很有情谊，甚至跟你结婚，生子，那才是真正的欺骗呢。

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You don't choose your best friend because they have a cute nose, but that's all you're doing when you get married; you're saying, 'I will spend the rest of my life with you because of your lower lip.'

你不会一个人鼻子长得可爱就选做好友，但这正是结婚的人的逻辑：‘为了你的下唇，我将与你共度余生。’

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And nothing might have come of it if she really did get to know you better or you spend time with her if you try to get close to her and if you got married, it might have been a disaster.

这不会有任何结果，如果她确实了解我更多一点，或者你花更多的时间和她在一起，如果你试着靠近她，并且结婚了，这有可能会变成一个灾难。

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But she goes beyond that to get you past the idea that you're supposed to get married and have a family with who you know.

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