Those who earlier made choices had a harder time staying focused and finishing the tasks than those who only had to think about their options.
那些早先作决定的人较比仅考虑选项的人在集中注意力和完成任务方面有更困难的经历。
And if you reference some of the stuff you made up earlier in the interaction, it will even make you both feel like "insiders" who share the same secret joke.
如果你在互动早期引用你编造的东西,那甚至会使你们感觉像是“自己人”在分享相同的秘密笑话一样。
The earlier studies found that once someone made a negative comment about a person who wasn't there, the conversation would get meaner unless someone immediately defended the target.
早期的研究发现,一旦有人对一个不在场的人做出了负面评论,除非有人立刻站出来反驳,否则谈话就会变得很别有意味。
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