Here are a few tips: First, think about what you want to say, not what you don't want to say, because when you try not to think or do something, it is often more likely to occur.

这里还有些小贴士：首先，思考你想说的内容，不要去想那些你不想说的。因为当你不想去想什么或者去做什么的时候，这件事反而更有可能发生。

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What it means is that we do not do what we have been doing, which is to say that 'until you agree to do exactly what we say, we will not have direct contacts with you, " he said.

我的意思是，我们不再沿用过去的作法，不再说，‘除非你完全同意我们的立场，否则我们就不会同你进行直接接触。

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People do what you do, not what you say. The optimal way spreading happiness is to work on your own happiness. By example.

人们会按照你“做”的，而不是“说”的去做。传播快乐的最佳方法是努力争取到自己的快乐。以身作则。

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The most important thing about leadership is not what you say; it's what you do.

领导最重要的不是说的话;,而是如何以身作则。

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What is most important, however, is not what you say but what you do.

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